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Modern Familyis a sitcom with colorful characters that explore the family dynamics of the Dunphys, Pritchetts, and Tuckers. Claire and Phil, played by Julie Bowen and Ty Burrell, respectively, were the most relatable couple on the show, trying to stay afloat while managing their three, very different kids!

They were the backbone of many storylines, but the couple’s vastly contrasting personalities made Claire a target of people’s hate and criticism. But years have passed since the show’s conclusion, and now we must start asking the right questions, like: why does Claire take the brunt of the blame when Phil was an equally flawed parent?
Julie Bowen’s Claire Dunphy: the overbearing mom ofModern Familyor just misunderstood?
Fans of the show have dissected theModern Familycharacter, Claire Dunphy, for long. They’ve pointed out how she’s a hypocrite when it comes to her parenting style which comes off as controlling. Viewers have also claimed that she micromanages her children, and her behavior resemblesDede, her mother, whom she resented.
Some fans also believe that her relationship with Luke and Haley is complicated, and she never gives them enough room to grow. However, others suggest that she counterbalanced her husband’s lenient parenting style which was necessary for the kids to be disciplined.

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Moreover, it’s common for people to turn out like their parents, so Claire acting somewhat like Dede is simply realistic and human. But despite all the flaws, her character seems to be intentionally written to show the imperfections and contradictions of what real-life parenting truly looks like in most households.
Why does Claire get all the hate while Phil is loved by most?
Phil Dunphy is a one-of-a-kind character, who’s unintentionally funny and his antics are always a treat to watch. So, a major reason for the hatred toward Claire is her relationship with Phil, as most fans adore the latter, and it overshadows his shortcomings as a parent.
At times, he unintentionally enables his kids to do wrong things or is even oblivious during important situations. However, his mistakes are easily forgiven because we take him for the absent-minded but adorable and loving father. We can also blame our societal biases, i.e., automatically expecting more from mothers while not holding fathers accountable.

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Fathers can afford to be careless or absent and no one bats an eye, but when the mother is not closer to the ideal, she is criticized to no extent. Claire being a disciplinarian makes her an easy target for criticism, but she often takes on this role to pick up the slack due to Phil’s laid-back attitude.
You can watchModern Familyon Hulu.
Sonika Kamble
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Sonika Kamble is an entertainment writer at Fandomwire, covering everything from timeless classics to newly released movies. With over 1000+ articles published, she delves into breakdowns, think pieces, speculations, and more.She enjoys connecting the dots and covering newfound angles about characters, scenes, and themes from movies directed by Scorsese, Fincher, Tarantino, Linklater, and other exceptional filmmakers.
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