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Sometimes, the most unforgettable love stories are the ones that sneak up on you—like the time Tom Cruise and Rebecca De Mornay set our screens on fire inRisky Business. Their on-screen chemistry? Electric. Their off-screen relationship? Well, it wasn’t exactly the stuff of fairytales.
Before they even shared a scene together inRisky Business, Cruise, at the age of 23, was a rising star in Hollywood. But he wasn’t exactly the love guru we all thought he was. In fact, before meeting Mornay, he straight-up admitted that he had never truly been in love.
No roses, no dramatic declarations—just pure, honest Cruise. His admission might just break your heart, considering the high-speed emotional growth he experienced thanks to theLords of Dogtownactress.
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You know that feeling when everything seems to be going perfectly, and you’re riding high, thinking that life is going to stay this sweet forever? Well, Rebecca De Mornay had that “Cinderella moment”when she first fell in love withTom Cruiseduring the filming ofRisky Business. The flick was a smash hit, her career was on the upswing, and she was madly in love.
The actress, 65, recalled those early days, swept up in the whirlwind of love and fame (viaThe Independent):
We were so in love, and the movie was a big smash, and I remember just feeling – wow, it’s just gonna go on like this! Not the case! Not at all.
Meanwhile, Cruise was at the very beginning of what would become a global acting career, but he wasn’t yet in love. You might think a heartthrob like theTop Gunstar would have love letters falling from the sky, but as he admitted candidly, he had never experienced what we think of as real love.“Uh, not really,”he said when asked if he’d been in love before meeting De Mornay (viaRolling Stone).
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The “really?” that followed the interviewer’s surprise response didn’t faze him much. It wasn’t that Cruise didn’t have affection for people—it was just that he had never reached that emotional depth that most of us recognize as ‘being in love’. Cruise continued:
There were girls you like a lot, but I’d never been in love before.
And then he dropped the bombshell: meeting Mornay changed all of that.“Since I’ve been with her, it’s opened me up a lot,” he confessed. Cruise saw a new version of himself unfold in his relationship with De Mornay—one that made him a better actor and a more emotionally open person. He said:
We live a lot of life together. We share everything. That’s the best thing about life. Otherwise you go through it pretty sad and lonely and angry.
Love, for Cruise, wasn’t just about hearts and flowers—it was about learning to share a life, to connect on a level that made everything else feel more meaningful.
Tom Cruise Reflected on His Life Before Rebecca De Mornay: ‘I was pretty lonely’
Before meetingRebecca De Mornay, Tom Cruise had been lonely. It’s easy to imagine the glamorous life of a rising star as one filled with excitement, but the latter wasn’t feeling that rush of connection with others. During the same interview, he said:
I was pretty lonely, yeah. I was really lonely before I met her.
The world might have seen a young man on the fast track to fame, but behind the scenes, he was quietly wrestling with a sense of isolation that no one really knew about.
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And that’s where Mornay entered the picture—not as some fairy-tale savior, but as someone who gave him a mirror to see who he truly was. But it wasn’t easy, either. Love, for Cruise, became a challenge—a way to unearth parts of himself he had buried.
Interestingly, Cruise’s hesitation to embrace marriage stemmed from his own childhood. Having grown up in a “broken home”, he was understandably skeptical about the institution of marriage. Divorce wasn’t just a word for him—it was part of his lived experience.
You know, coming from a broken home—it did seem like a broken home.
The fear of repeating his parents’ mistakes loomed large over him:
Does marriage work as a concept?’ I really never thought it could.
It’s fascinating to consider how Tom Cruise’s personal life aligned so closely with the roles he played on-screen. TakeRain Man, for example. In this 1988 film, the actor portrayed Charlie Babbitt, a man who, though outwardly functional, was emotionally distant. Babbitt’s character wasn’t just struggling to connect with his autistic brother; he was struggling with his own inability to connect with anyone, even himself.
Cruise acknowledged the parallels between his character and his own emotional landscape, admitting, “Yeah, I felt that way.”He even described his character as being “a spiritual autistic”, recognizing how emotionally boxed off he was from others.
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